Text and Photos by Prime Sarmiento
Every city has a certain energy and Bangkok has that distinct feminine energy that I love and relish – enough to lure me to the City of Angels over and over again.
I don’t exactly know where this energy is coming from. Is it from temples that abound in the Thai capital? Or the fact that yoga and meditation is a huge thing here? Maybe it’s because this is a shopaholic haven – there are shopping malls and stalls everywhere, catering to everyone’s interest and budgets.
Whatever. The city exudes beauty and sensuality and perfect for female travelers like you who just want toto relax on a weekend and discover your inner Goddess.
Here are some things that you can do in Bangkok to discover that Goddess within:
First things first, buy this beautiful guide to Bangkok:
Available at all major bookstores, Nancy Chandler’s Map of Bangkok is the only guide that will recommend to any female traveler in Bangkok. And no, this is so not an affiliate link [ I wish!] but I just loveeeee the colorful and cute map designed by this former children’s book illustrator. The map is so beautiful, you can even frame it after your trip!
Not only is the map a useful guide to some of Bangkok’s famous tourist spots, the accompanying pocket-sized guidebook contains an exhaustive list of hotels, restaurants, museums, galleries, jewelry stores, yoga centers etc that fits any female traveler’s heart’s desires.
Wander around the Wat Phra Kaew and the Grand Palace Complex:
The Thai monarchy no longer lives in the Grand Palace but this majestic building is still worth y of visit if only to know more about the Southeast Asia’s royal family. The same complex is also home to Thailand’s most sacred site: Wat Phra Kaew – shrine of the miraculous Emerald Buddha.
Please bear in mind that since Wat Phra Kaew is sacred site, there’s a dress code. Wear something that will cover your shoulders and legs. No sleeveless tops or shorts. Flipflops and see through clothes are likewise forbidden.
Meditate at Wat Po:
Bangkok’s oldest Buddhist temple was built in the 17th century temple. It is famous as the site of the country’s largest statue of the Reclining Buddha. One of the best times to visit this temple is at night when its golden stupas shine amid the night lamps that illuminate the whole temple complex.
Escape Bangkok’s traffic jams and pollution by taking alternative transport:
Forget about the bus or taking the cab – they can’t do anything in a terrible traffic jam. The iconic tuktuks – the three wheel motorized rickshaw- is a lovely way to explore Bangkok as this is the best way to “go local” but it will expose you to heat and dust.
Better use the river taxi – it’s faster and gives you a better view of Bangkok – this city is after all built around the Chao Phraya River.
But if you’re like me who gets queasy while traveling on water, better use the BTS Skytrain or MRT subway train. It’s convenient, cheap, and accessible.
Learn to appreciate Thai architecture by visiting Jim Thompson’s House:
This elegant teak house is the former home of Thailand’s most famous farang. Jim Thompson introduced Thai silk to the world, and this house showcases and sells products made from the finest Thai silk – from scarves to cute elephant stuff toys.
The rambling house has tasteful interiors and contains Jim Thompson’s personal art and furniture collection. Pay for the guided tour, it’s worth every single centavo as this will give you an idea not only of the man himself but of Southeast Asian art.
Shop till you drop at Chatuchak Weekend Market:
Bangkok’s most famous open air market has hundreds of shops selling everything that you can think of – clothes, jewelry, furniture, fresh produce, art work, pottery, pets, indoor plants, textile. It’s a labyrinth of stores and stalls that it’s easy to get lost, especially if you’re a first time visitor. So if you see something you want, better buy it on the spot. But of course, never forget to bargain.
If Chatuchak is too confusing for you, better stick to shopping malls. They’re air-conditioned – a refuge from Bangkok’s sweltering heat – more organized, plus you donlt have to endure the looooong queues when you need to go to the toilet.
Go on a foodie trip:
And I’m not just talking about Thai food but all types of cuisine – French, Italian, Chinese, Indian, Fusion, Vegetarian, Raw Food. Bangkok is a cosmopolitan place as it is after all a key travel center in Asia and home to numerous expats working in the U.N. or international non-profits. You can in fact spend all weekend just eating and still wanting for more.
You can even bring your foodie status to the next level by signing up for a weekend cooking class! There are several courses offered in Bangkok and most of them offer class lectures and a visit to the wet market.
Savor a breathtaking view of Wat Arun:
Bangkok’s unforgettable landmark represents Mount Meru – home of the gods in Khmer mythology. Each terrace of the tower style structure holds several images of the Buddha.
Located directly across the Chao Phraya River from Wat Po, one of the best ways to view Wat Arun is to grab a table and have a cocktail at the Amorosa – a rooftop bar located at the opposite river bank. This is the ideal place for a breathtaking sunset view of Wat Arun. Better go there early as the bar can only sit 30 people.
Besides, the best tables are the ones located by the window side – where you can sip wine while the sun sets behind Wat Arun – the perfect day to end a lovely Thai weekend.
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Thanks and enjoy your journey.
I adore Bangkok. I went there in 2006 for an Ultimate Frisbee tournament and ended up extending my 2 weeks into 6 weeks in South East Asia.
I particularly fell for Bangkok’s charm -the hustle and bustle and it’s 24/7 nature. I loved it, many people I know find it way too busy and noisy but I thrived in that city. The train was clean and fast and easy to use, the shopping malls were crazy cool. I liked the streetside vendors selling dodgey looking but tasty food and who could not experience a Tuk-Tuk ride in downtown Bangkok!
Bangkok is such a beautiful place! And that’s the place where I bought my latest collection of jewelry because they have the cheapest silver and gold!
Hi Bea, that’s wonderful! Where did you buy your jewelry? Would love to buy some as I plan to return there
Hi Prime, that’s a great guide for Bangkok. It’s good not only for solo female traveler but also for those non-solos. It’s been a great while since I’ve been to Bangkok. My husband and I plan to visit soon and your guide will come in handy. Thanks! – Marisol
Hello Marisol, I hope you’ll enjoy your trip to Bangkok.
would love to visit!
you should! it’s affordable too
Hi there,
I just booked a flight to Bangkok and I arrive a few days before my friend who lives there gets back into town. Do you have any safety suggestions for me? I just read the US State Department's travel page about Thailand and it made me very nervous (all of those pages are probably wrote to make US citizens paranoid anyway).
Hi Jenn, many thanks for visiting our site and also, WEelcome to South East Asia!
I find Bangkok quite safe for female travelers. However, I'm more of a cautious traveler so what i usually do is I listen/read the advisory and determine whether that really applies to me. For instance, does the travel advisory advises you against going to thailand in general or just in Bangkok or certain Thai areas? You also need to look at the political situation, I often hear rumors about bombing in Bangkok because of some political problems. What we usually do is just avoid crowded areas like malls or popular temples and just go back there another time.
And of course, I use my common sense and take certain precautions (which I do anywhere, even in Manila. I don't talk to strangers, I don't leave my valuables anywhere, I don't booze with people I don't trust. I also avoid buying jewelry or gadgets if i'm not sure of the quality and/or the credentials of the seller – as these items are quite expensive.
This post may also help you in keeping safe: http://solofemaletravel.net/2012/03/woman-travel-alone-safety/
Thanks and enjoy your journey!